When their “spiritual help” feels like a curse. We’ve all been there: You’re in a season of waiting—a visa delay, a job hunt, a health journey, an adoption process or a door to finally swing open after you’ve knocked and knocked. But in the midst of all this, there’s often another battle quietly brewing—one that feels less like spiritual warfare and more like emotional warfare:The unsolicited spiritual solutions from overzealous believers in your life. You know the ones.The cousin who sends you a YouTube sermon link every week about “unlocking your destiny.”It’s stressful enough… until Aunt Linda texts you again about the “prophetic pastor” who can “breakRead More →

It happened again. That sickening lurch in the pit of your stomach when you realise your kindness has been twisted against you. Someone I knew, someone I thought was a friend, spun me a tale of hardship. My instinct, as it always has been, was to help. I reached into my pocket, driven by empathy and a desire to ease their burden, only to discover later it was all a carefully constructed lie. They weren’t a friend in need; they were a scammer exploiting my trust. Again. This isn’t the first time. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I trust easily. I give freely. For me, generosityRead More →

There’s a kind of heartbreak many couples carry in silence — one that’s rarely talked about openly, yet weighs heavily behind closed doors. It’s the heartbreak of trying to conceive and not seeing those two pink lines month after month. If you’ve been here, you know how raw, personal, and exhausting it can be. And if you haven’t, then this post is especially for you, too. To the Couple Walking This Path: If you’re reading this and you’ve struggled to conceive, I want you to know: you are not alone. I see you. I know the weight you carry—the monthly hope followed by disappointment, theRead More →