There are moments in life when a shift happens—not just in your routine, but deep in your spirit. Recently, I experienced one of those moments. A revelation that redefined how I see discipline, and more importantly, how I see myself. For years, I thought discipline was a switch you flipped: either you had it, or you didn’t. You were ‘disciplined’ or you were ‘lazy.’ But recently, sweating it out alone in the gym at 5 AM when every fibre of my being screamed to hit snooze, I had a profound revelation: discipline isn’t a state you achieve; it’s a muscle you build, level by level. And I’veRead More →

There’s something about waiting that makes people uncomfortable. Maybe it’s the silence. Maybe it’s the slowness. Maybe it’s the fact that we live in a world obsessed with instant results and visible success. But here’s what most people don’t see when someone is in a waiting season: They don’t see what God is doing in that person.Because they’re too focused on what hasn’t happened yet. When you’re in the middle of trusting God for a breakthrough—whether it’s healing, provision, direction, or restoration—it can feel like all eyes are on the outcome. People start to question things. “Isn’t she still waiting?” “Didn’t he pray about thatRead More →

Do I like doing 75 HARD? Absolutely not. Will I do it again? Absolutely yes. Let me tell you why. The Truth About 75 HARD – It’s Not Just a Challenge. It’s a Mirror. This was my second round of 75 HARD, and let me tell you — it hit different. Not because the workouts were harder or because the reading felt more profound (though it did). It hit different because I’ve changed. This time, I came into it more self-aware, more intentional, and less available for B.S. The truth is: I don’t do this challenge because it’s trendy or for aesthetic goals. I doRead More →

After I shared my reflection about a long-awaited breakthrough and how it came—not because of my prayers or fasting, but simply because God is God—I knew this question would rise: “So what’s the point of praying? Why fast? Why cry out if God will do what He wants anyway?” It’s a fair question. One I’ve asked myself.And here’s the honest answer: Prayer and fasting aren’t about earning answers from God.They’re about aligning ourselves with Him. Let me break this down. 1. We’re Not Twisting God’s Arm—We’re Tuning Our Hearts God is not a vending machine.You don’t insert 40 days of fasting and get instant favour.He’sRead More →

You know that one thing you’ve been praying about for a long time?That one decision that, when it finally comes, has the power to shift your entire life? Yeah… that one. Well, the decision I was waiting for—finally came through. It’s hard to explain what it feels like when something you’ve been holding your breath for suddenly arrives. It’s a mix of relief, gratitude, exhaustion, and disbelief. You want to celebrate, cry, and sleep all at once. ( I didn’t sleep!) But what caught me off guard was not just the breakthrough itself—it was people’s reactions to it. Every person I told said something alongRead More →

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I’ve been “waiting” for a decision for what feels like forever. And if you’ve ever been there—caught in that in-between space where nothing seems to move—you know how heavy that can feel. The questions. The doubt. The wondering if maybe… you missed it. If maybe something’s wrong. Maybe you’re blocked. Cursed. Forgotten. Here’s the profound truth I learnt in the wait: This isn’t a curse. It isn’t a blockage. It’s Divine Timing at work. We often mistake the space between prayer and answer for absence or indifference – a frustrating delay. But what if we reframed it? This waiting period isn’t punishment. It’s not stagnation. It’sRead More →

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There’s a Swahili saying I’ve come to live by:“Tenda wema, nenda zako.”Loosely translated, it means:“Do good, and go on your way.” It sounds so simple, almost too easy to say — but in reality, living this truth is one of the deepest forms of inner freedom. Do Good Without Waiting for Applause Life has taught me this again and again: You can pour love into people, show up for them in ways big and small, and still — they might never return the gesture. Some won’t say thank you. Some will even forget. Some will act like it never happened. And yet, you did good.Read More →